Sex with Spirits.

[Leila Raven]

Posted this as a response to someone on Pagan UnderWorld, (a site owned by one of our members here on the Temple) who brought up the topic of Spectrophilia - sex with spirits.

I had an experience a long time ago now, where I had a series of events where I started napping in the late morning, not a usual habit then, and as soon as I'd fall asleep I'd dream this partly visible entity would come into the room and touch me. I'd have an orgasm in my sleep, and then wake up about a half hour later.

It didn't seem to affect me negatively or drain me energetically in any way to begin with, actually I felt pretty good and refreshed. For me having orgasms in dreams is not that usual, happened only occasionally. After about 3 months there was a shift in the energy and I started to feel a negative energy drain, and so I sent my spirit lover bye-bye...

Could be just dreams.. could be something more. I'm someone that likes to keep options open, I'm inclined to believe personally that I had some interaction with another being existing on a different plane. However if a scientist came along and could prove to me I was just dreaming, I'd be just as happy to discover it was 'all in my head'...
either way, not a bad experience.

 

Just thought I'd share my experience with ghostly nookie! lol.

Live in Love

Leila

 

 

 

 

[Leila Raven]

Well if it is going mad, it's a lovely way to go mad. lol.

[Leila Raven]

Tamasin, that sounds so lovely... :)

[Leila Raven]

Deja Vu... your words gave me. Interesting.

[Leila Raven]

AmenMaatRa, it makes me wonder if those who have taken vows of celibacy have a greater probability of encountering such entities.

[Leila Raven]

Most people aren't. Flesh often hinders the spirit, believe me, not all my connections have been as sacred and divine as I would like them to be, but when you truly can connect with one of your soul mates in this world flesh to flesh and overcome all the insecurities of the flesh our society imbeds in us and let your spirits mingle as well... that is a transcendent experience, in, and out, of body.

I was lucky to have memory and knowledge of one of my soul mates in this world, and we reconnected as soon as we reached adult hood. We've been together since, he's my husband and soul mate, Wolfe. He's on the site, but not active here, his other interests keep him busy.

I believe we are all each others soul mates, or can be, we are all a perfect whole divine flame, a spark of a greater infinite divine flame, and we can merge and combine that flame with that of any other... it takes only love. which is in itself a return to source.

Those are just my personal meanderings from my own experiences... and subject to change, and error. *smile*

[Leila Raven]

Amira, I would rather have sex only with the spirit than only with the body, but since I can have it both ways, that's my preference. *smile*

[Leila Raven]

Wow Turukai what an intense experience, thanks for sharing.

I think the sense of 'cold' when dealing with an entity is a strong signal that they must feed off of ambient energy and therefore will more than likely feed of our 'warmth'/'energy' if given the opportunity. I'm always quick to up the protection of my own energy at any hint of feeling coldness.

Sounds to me like a very genuine encounter, especially with the history of the house experiences you had had and the reactions of the cat, etc.

[Leila Raven]

Lol, the most balanced people are completely mad... *smile*  Greater truths live in the land of paradox..

[Leila Raven]

Interesting, coincidentally 'Katt' has been my 'handle' since I was 13, and I used it as my name online for many years, most of my friends call me Katt. Your Kat sounds a bit heavier handed than my consciousness though. Not that I can't be very sadistic, but only when the other person has made it more than evident that for them it's the desired interplay, as much as taking someone begging to be taken to those places is intoxicating for me, the same actions if pushed on non-consensually is something that revolts me to the core.

[Leila Raven]

AmenMaatRa, I have no idea if I qualify for anyone's definition of a purified mind, unlikely, *laugh*. But I do know that as soon as I willed the entity/encounters to stop they did. Mind you I've been a lucid dreamer since puberty.

Persephone, for sure, I hadn't thought about the experience for a while. I decided to just pop it in a blog here rather than start a forum thread for it, and keep it in the Spirit group. Keep the discussion focus on the Pagan Underworld Thread.