Experiences With Death

[Grigori Rho Gharveyn]

Gharveyn's Experiences With Death

Welcome to some of our experiences with death.

Death comes to each person not once in a lifetime, but many times, countless times, but it seems as if few people become aware of this.

Each time we have died we have returned to life in a body nearly identical with the body that recently died, except we are once more alive in virtually the same circumstances as before, except that we are no longer dead or in immediate peril of death.

As a child we were trained to help the dead make their transitions from death to life when they sometimes get stuck along the way.

The portrayal of some of the afterlife in the Robin Williams' movie What Dreams May Come is one of the most accurate representations of an after-life that we have ever seen on a screen.

The wife of Robin's character trapped herself in her own limited projections of reality following her suicide. This is the sort of person we were trained to help.

Following death, each person hallucinates reality, often hallucinating a reality in which they have not yet died, often completely forgetting they have just recently died.

Most people recover from their projected sense of reality, awaken to their spiritual condition, and then choose to return to life either as a spirit in the spirit worlds, or in a reincarnated or resurrected form.

Those who sojourn awhile in the spirit worlds eventually reincarnate or resurrect as well.

However, some people become caught up in their own illusions and fail to emerge from their projected fantasies while their dream worlds slowly succumb to entropy and decay around them.

These people can be helped to return to life, but it takes patience to make contact with someone who has lost themselves this way. They resist the intrusions of anyone who might disrupt their carefully maintained illusions.

But this is as true in life as in death.

All of reality is a projected illusion created when people's minds mediate and interpret the information gathered by their senses.

The cognitive habits of a lifetime persist after death.

During a person's last moments alive time seems to stretch out such that entire lifetimes, even many lifetimes all seem to be reviewed in less time than an eye-blink.

A dying person's life may literally pass before their mind's eyes.

As this is happening the dying person will hear the voices of all of their loved ones, family, and friends crying out to dying person to stay with them.

This is a heart-wrenching emotional experience that usually aides the dying person to be aware of all of the worlds of life that are opened to them as they die.

There are always these three choices for anyone who has died: to be a spirit for awhile, to reincarnate, or to resurrect.

Sometimes people will remember near-death experiences after they resurrect.  These memories often fade quickly.

The experience of dying is so painful that it traumatizes most people very deeply so that they choose to forget they have died; they forget either after they have returned to life, or before returning to life.

It is the people who forget their deaths too soon who are most likely to become trapped in their own minds' illusions as their cognitive habits of a lifetime persist, misinforming them of a world they are no longer any part of.

Eventually they may emerge from their dream-worlds; often they are much depleted of parts of themselves that characterized them in their recent lifetime. Those people whose cognitive habits in life were particularly withdrawn or sedentary are most vulnerable to remain trapped in their own illusions.

One of the most difficult illusions to penetrate is the illusion of being dead that non-believers in an after-life often weave about themselves such that they no longer have thoughts or feelings of any sort because they chose to believe that all sensations would end once they have died.

These people do their best to believe in their own non-existence; they often resent anyone who intrudes to interrupt their dreamless dream of being dead.

Nonetheless, even these most recalcitrant dead people can be reached and nurtured back to life.

That was the job taken up by Robin's character in What Dreams May Come; he chose to risk himself in his wife's illusions to reach her and bring her back to life.

Guiding the dead is a vocation we enlisted with before we were born.

We began life with a death-wish that left us still-born.

We were coaxed to return to life in our mother's womb even though we feared the pain this lifetime would bring us.

We were guided back to life many times as an infant because we starved ourselves to death, refusing to eat.

Eventually we remembered our purpose here and resigned ourselves to live.

One thing we have learned about death is that suicide never works.

Suicide cannot end pain or suffering, instead it always makes matters worse.

Each time we have returned from suicide our life force has been weaker, our ability to sustain a home and job has been diminished. Our relationships with our family and friends grow weaker, and our ability to form new relationships with new people is weaker as well.

We cannot describe the damages of suicide to anyone who wishes to kill themselves with adequate words to inform them how harmful suicide is each time a suicidal person kills themselves.

Each time you die you return to life in a slightly different universe than the one you quit from; because of this you leave behind universes where your friends and family mourn you each time you die.

The avatars of your friends and family in the new universes you inhabit after resurrecting can feel the pain and anguish of their avatars in those universes in which you have died. They are usually not consciously aware of this pain but they subconsciously associate their pain with you and this makes them withdraw.

They unconsciously avoid you because you become associated with their non-conscious sense of pain.

If any good can come of suicide, it cannot be achieved without terrible pain and loss, consequently we do not advise anyone to kill themselves.

We hope we have made this point very clear.

Death is transformative, but you have lifetimes to live before you die, and plenty of opportunities to die along the way that you will be unable to avoid, but must simply pass through.

These unavoidable deaths are burdens enough for anyone who becomes aware of them, without adding the additional burdens of suicide.

If you would like to learn what death can teach you then you need not kill yourself to learn this; instead you need only remember past times you have already died in this incarnation.

You can remember through your dreams.

Before you go to sleep you should reflect on what you want to learn in your dreams, imagine what you wish to remember. Focus your intention to remember as clearly as you can as you pass into sleep.

Keep a dream journal.

Write in your dream journal every day as soon after waking as you can, regardless of whether you remember any dreams. What you cannot remember you should try to fill in with your imagination.

Your dream-work at bedtime and your journal every morning will reinforce each other to promote your memories of having died before.

Many people find it easier to remember past-life deaths first as the pain and trauma are a little more remote; this makes these deaths easier to remember.

Dream well, dream often.

Dream the truth about death for yourself.

Enjoy!
love, the grigs...

[GenerationOfHope]

hi i liked this articles lots and that film is great 

have you done anything on Deja Vu and ringing in the ears ?

[Grigori Rho Gharveyn]

Hi GenerationOfHope,

We're glad you liked our article but we are a bit puzzled regarding which film you might mean; we almost never post media clips.  We are mostly a writer, rarely an artist.  We rarely repost other people's work except to decorate our blog.

We have experienced deja-vu, but not written about it.  We are grateful that we rarely experience ringing in our ears.

While some scientists seem to have an explanation for deja-vu, that seems more cognitive than neural.  In short, there appear to be multiple channels of modeling reality that compete for attention and when one of two similar channels lags slightly behind the other then deja-vu may occur.

We are not sure this is an accurate model for the phenomena but it is less fanciful than some explanations.

As for ear-ringing we know even less.

Sorry.

If we had to hazard a spiritual cause for ear-ringing we might imagine it is related to the resonance sometimes experienced when something 'rings true'.

Enjoy!

[GenerationOfHope]

What Dreams May Come is what i mean from the above article as the article mentioned it 

brilliant film great article

thank you

regards

[Grigori Rho Gharveyn]

<smacks forehead> d'oh

our memory was never what it used to be...

Enjoy!